Two years ago, I planned to surprise my mom on her diamond year but it didn't push through since I had problems with my passport. This year, however, I saw to it that I can go back to the Philippines to celebrate her 77th.
It was a surprise though my father and brother knew it beforehand. We didn't plan for a grand celebration as we are used to simple ones. Besides, all I wanted was to have a photoshoot with her on her special day. The major problem is, however, she is not comfortable posing in front of the camera.
Hammock
You were the hammock ---
when my world was moonless
until pastel-colored stars shone
on me. You swayed me against the threats
of seasons, never tired holding
the weave of love.
when my world was moonless
until pastel-colored stars shone
on me. You swayed me against the threats
of seasons, never tired holding
the weave of love.
I hold onto the weave of love,
won’t be tired to sway you safely
against the threats of seasons.
As ashen stars crowd over you,
until your world be moonless ---
I am your hammock.
won’t be tired to sway you safely
against the threats of seasons.
As ashen stars crowd over you,
until your world be moonless ---
I am your hammock.
She had no choice but to give in to my request. After all, I will be staying for four days only. She was hesitant at first but later on, was kinda enjoying the activity. It was very hot though. My brother prepared all the necessary props for the shoot, except for the frames that I bought here. It was a family effort, a photography-related family bonding! How cool is that?
I kept on clicking the camera. They, yes, all of them suddenly became my subjects, took turns in giving their best smiles. This is the day I wish would never end. How I loved and enjoyed every second of it. I may be spewing cliches but this is exactly what I felt. I would love to do it again!
I have been taking photos half-heartedly for the past months. I think this family bonding is the muse I've been waiting for to be back on track.It was a quick but well-spent vacation. It was short but felt like forever.
Ma, happy 77th birthday! Palangga ka namon!
/totomai
2014/03/07
What a lovely words and beautiful pictures! Happy happy birthday tita! May the Lord continue to bless you with good health, love and so much happiness.
ReplyDeleteThanks! Thanks! :-)
DeleteLovely photos. This is an awesome gift for moms. I do hope I can do a photoshoot with my parents too. :)
ReplyDeleteYou should. I never thought they will enjoy despite the hesitation haha
DeleteAbsolutely exquisite images n your poem and in the glow of your Mama's face - read your words through a shimmer of tears
ReplyDeleteAww. Thanks PKP... she was having fun but it was too hot haha
DeleteBeautiful memories and the best gift to the best person in the world that is" A Mother"!
ReplyDeleteAgree VS!
DeleteWhat a wonderful tribute and surprise for your mother. Love the idea to take those pictures. Thank you for sharing your joy.
ReplyDeleteMy pleasure Bjorn. Poets United is my family now..
DeleteBeautifully written and real heart felt life, great pictures that really make this work.
ReplyDeleteThanks Alan :-)
DeleteHappy Birthday to your Ma...You are truly blessed..May you have many more family photo-shoots to come...how beautifully you've brought out the change of roles in the poem..great lines :)
ReplyDeleteHow I wish I can convince them again... Thanks Sumana!
DeleteI live in the US and my family are in the UK so I know how precious time spent with family can be. Looks like such a fun photo shoot and memories to last a lifetime.
ReplyDeleteHi Kathryn... you are correct, every vacation day felt more than 24 hrs...
DeleteOh Totomai what a beautiful family. Im so glad your family had this time together. The Tshirts are classic!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your day and your family with us.
Hi Moonie - loved the shirts too. Though a bit stressful to plan everything haha
DeleteWhat a beautiful series of photos, Totomai! A photoshoot was such a good idea. And reading your poem...just lovely... So true how the roles change over the years. First your mom as 'hammock' and then you. May we all have someone to be our hammock as we age!!
ReplyDeleteHi Mary - I guess all of us will have his/her hammock...
DeleteWhat a beautiful birthday you gave her! Your photos and words are a great tribute to your mother, totomai.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Gabriella...
DeleteYour Mum looks like a sweetie...Glad you could get there for her birthday.
ReplyDeleteShe is rallentanda... always smiling and all that lol...
Deletebravo,
ReplyDeletepowerful memo.
Thanks Catie
Deletethis whole piece manifested love .your pictures are lovely. the inclusiveness concept of all members of the family pictorially speaks visually and your words written are soulful and bring a spirituality to this.
ReplyDeletegracias for sharing
Gracias too Marco! It wasn't easy to plan but I guess we are all happy with the outcome..
DeleteOh this just touches my heart so deeply, I could weep, Totomai. What a wonderful mama you have and what a wonderful son you are!!!!!! I LOVE LOVE LOVE the photos! Your mama is beautiful. LOVE her holding the balloons. I hate the camera too but am so glad she got into the spirit of things. I love the collage of photos from the past - such treasures - such stories of love are written in those faces. I especially love how she was your hammock when you were small and your promise to be her hammock as she ages. So lovely.
ReplyDeleteOh Sherry - thanks for words.. I will be showing all your words to her :-) She will be happy..
DeleteSuch a beautiful post and the Hammock poem so heartfelt. What a treat to visit here.
ReplyDeleteThanks OE... it is one of my fave poems written...
DeleteWhat a nice celebration! You made a beautiful memory, Totomai ! The poem's very touching, I like how the hammock metaphor moved from mom to you....so true. Great efforts with photos! Thanks for sharing :)x
ReplyDeleteThanks humbird... :-) I will always be her hammock
DeleteI say that's awesome cool, happy birthday to your mom from me also
ReplyDeleteThanks for dropping in at my Sunday Lime
Much love ...
I will Gillena... :-) Thanks!
Deleteyour mom is so cute ..... lovely pics ...may her nights are never moonless and you are her hammock forever :) :) wish her a very happy 77th and many mores from me :)
ReplyDeleteAww. Thanks Surabhi.
DeleteThis is so heart-warming! You're one wonderful guy, Totomai, and you have a great, lovely family.
ReplyDeleteand i really love your 'hammock' poem, i think it's fantastic. :)
Thanks Ds! Just being a mama's boy I think lol
DeleteThe pictures are fantastic! Your Mom is beautiful, and looks so young too. Your poem is so touching. I love the idea of a hammock. And now you are that hammock. Just beautiful!
ReplyDeleteit's a cycle Myrna :-) Thanks!
Deletei love your photos and also the way you used the hammock to describe your relationship with your mom!!!
ReplyDeleteMuch thanks James...
DeleteVery insightful and great use of imagery.
ReplyDeleteThanks G L !
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